Life Just IS.

Hi! I'm Lavina. Namaste and Greetings! :))

My purpose for being here is to just share. I have learned much from the sharing of other people's life experiences and I figure I can return the service.

Most often we never know who is looking for a little encouragement and by just reading a word here, a line there, something stirs within opening up a potential he/she never even knew existed. It sets something new in motion. It is more about being of assistance to even just one person. When that happens I Am deeply grateful for that chance to help. Every one needs a helping hand. I know I do - constantly!

Life is not about complicated, profound stuff only.  I am often very pleasantly surprised how simple Life actually and really is. I have gone so used to trying to figure out how to do "cartwheels" that all I have achieved is a lot of fatigue and stress following that process. Life is much sweeter than that.  Its about letting it take me and breathe me in and out each moment creating sweet little nothings. Literally, everything is nothing. Once done, they cease to exist. I must move on. How incredibly simple Life is. There are two sides to every experience. I can choose how I wish to see the experience. Now, that is remarkable. I have a choice. I don't have to be stuck in old stuff and stories. Its not there anywhere so why bother?

Life is very uncomplicated. I like it simple. I have been a housewife by choice for some time now because I no longer wanted to be in the rat race. I have given up life in the corporate environment because it stopped agreeing with my inner being a long  time ago. Being at home gives me complete freedom to just BE whatever I need to be at any given moment - not that I cannot experience being me anywhere else- its just that I am no longer restricted in any way.

For me to be of service "out there", I need to know who I am "in here"  - my Home within me - to guide my life outwards. Being at home in the external world gives me that time to pray, meditate, contemplate, study, self-inquire, live, love, experience, etc. etc. without the stress of trying to prove myself constantly in a world that has its own set of rules that don't match up with my idea of freedom.

Contrary to the belief that I can make a difference only by going "out there" in the world, I find my role presently enables me to "enable" many people by just being me and being at ease with myself and my life, and hence, being available to anyone from any strata of society at any time helping them to see that the world becomes a kind, loving, generous and beautiful place when we constantly are aware of our thoughts. This pushes me to do the same because my memory tends to be short!! I have a little reminder that helps me with this. My mobile chimes a beautiful forest theme every hour on the hour to remind me to take stock my life in the last hour and in this moment change what needs to be changed. This is the best tool I have ever been able to follow without fuss - a thought which sprang to my mind one early morning. If I am tired and need rest, the hourly chime reminds me to pay attention. If I am feeling aligned, the chimes remind me to be grateful. This is bliss for me. I have the reminder to change my mood and thoughts every hour on the hour. Time has its place and value.

Often people ask me questions like "what do you do?", I am often stumped for an answer because I am unable to give them the answer they would like to hear and be sufficiently impressed.  When I say " I'm just doing a lot of inner study" , they go "Oh!" and usually there is a moment of silence and a PAUSE!  

I love PAUSES. They bring me right back to my Realty and my own Path.

Ah! well! I hope your life allows you the freedom to bloom and shine and be unapologetic about living just the way you want. Wish you Divine Freedom.

With Reverence and Infinite Gratitude for Life. Life Just Is. Breathe ... and Relax! All is well.

Namaste.